Cos change is inevitable

A lot of times in life we are not ready to accept change...life goes on and on till one jerk and everything seems to be shattered, which is then that we sit up and take notice. We are so lost in routine that we never take notice of things that we to need change. We need a tight slap on our face maybe to realise or remind us that everything in life doesnt go as planned. I, too till a month ago had everything so well set in my life...my family, my career, my future, everything...we like that secure feeling of everything planned and decided and then we go on with the hope of someday we will achieve all of it and live in bliss. Till one day, fate decides to show its strenght and slaps us hard. After one very unpleasant, yet maybe an overdue incident, changed my life, and forced me to start thinking afresh. Yeah literally forced me. It shattered all my illusions, all my plans, everything that I had planned and decided and convinced myself of what my life would be. We are all in a state of inertia and unless acted upon we neither accept nor act upon the change. Unless life doesnt give us a jolt we dont put in efforts to sit back and think what we are and what we want. We are so lost in our illusions and dreams that we never think of contingencies and then the unexpected happens and makes us ponder. I, while trying to get out of all this in the last one month have taken to a lot of new hobbies. I started writing, learning tarot...all the things which otherwise I would not have even thought of doing. But this change in life, has made me change...has forced me to build new dreams, new aspirations, plan everything right from the scratch and start afresh. I dont know how sucessful I would be or happy for that matter, but like a saying which was sent to me at absolutely the right time which said "SMOOTH ROADS NEVER MAKE GOOD DRIVERS, PROBLEM FREE LIFE NEVER MAKES STRONG PERSONS, SO NEVER IN LIFE THINK "WHY ME" INSTEAD CHALLENGE IT AND SAY "TRY ME". And thats what I am gonna do cos I cant stop trusting myself!!!! Its like a house built with so much of efforts which collapses suddenly and there you have to build it again with the same amount of passion and zest...Thats life...you create, destroy and again create....and it all goes in cycles. It will hit you hard...drop you low...what really matters is how well you come back with the new hope, new desire and a new passion to live on. So next time life decides to slap you hard with totally unexpected change...slap it back harder with even more amount of enthusiasm to build back everything that you've lost.