Here I am finally writing...the reason for delay i actually wanted to start my blog with something i really felt like writing about. So I waited and waited and waited and here finally saw one name in my recent visitors list which i had been dying to see since ages. Life's a little tough right now and I have been just trying to think what's the whole thing about loving and being loved...is there really something called unconditional love? We grow up seeing our parents love us, take care of us, give us all that we ask and so is the bond formed. Would we still feel the same had they not done all this for us? Our parents love us because they see themselves in us..in some or the other way. No I am not at all doubting what our parents feel, its absolutely selfless and maybe unconditional too but thats cos its a natural instinct to love your kids cos you see them grow, feel attached, take pride in the fact that u've given them birth....He is MY son, she is MY daughter...they arent selfish but again isnt it "MY", a feeling of belongingness that is conveyed. We all love and feel attached to people more so ever not for what we feel about them but for WHAT THEY FEEL ABOUT US. We all want to be loved, cared for, adored, feel wanted....and then if we reciprocate this feeling then is it called being unconditional? How many people do we know in our lives who love people unconditionally without expecting anything at all in return...well less enough to count on ur fingers. If LOVE IS SUPPOSE TO BE UNCONDITIONAL WHY DO THEY SAY THEY SHOULD BE AN EQUAL GIVE AND TAKE IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP......as in where does "give and take" arise then? Isnt unconditional about not expecting anything? We all are selfish and we all do things cos somewhere unconsciencly we expect it back...the only unconditional love is from a mother who even after the kicks for 9 months ready to do anything for the next 90 years for the same child. Hats off to every mother on this earth!! Just think of the things she puts up with!!