....And we always ignore them!!

I read this wonderful saying in one of the forwards "We make them cry who care for us, We cry for those who never care for us, and We care for those who will never cry for us". So true!! We all in our lives run behind things which seem to be difficult to get or do. But do we realise that the human mind thinks the tougher it is to get something the more valuable that it is!! Funny but thats how it is! A lot of times we judge things by their form of accessibility. We care for people who dont value us and we cry for those who dont deserve us!! But I think thats insecurity what each one of us has within us. When we realise that someone doesnt care for us, we discredit ourselves to believe that we lack something... and then the more we run behind someone, lesser the person values us.... why..... cos we are easily there for them! Our insecurities in life come from what people think about us and not what we shuld think about ourselves and we try to do things rather care about things or those who dont value us!!! Like its said "Never explain yourself to anyone, because the person who likes you doesnt need it and the one who dislikes you wont believe it". We are conditioned to think that anything that we have isnt worth it and we run behind things we dont hav... no doubt we are never satisfied in life. We dont value people who are there always by our side always, we take them for granted. I did that till i realised that the centre of my world resided on a different planet. We want people who dont care for us cos our insecurities make us doubt ourselves and we dont care for people who are with us cos we assume its they who need us and not we who need them.The irony of our life is that while running behind things or people we dont have, we disregard all those little gestures by those who make that difference in our lives.
Like its known "Dont let someone be a priority in your life, when your just an option in theirs".