Its always been easy to be negative!!!!

We all are selfish and everything that we do in life has selfish motives. Every situation has a positive or a negative outlook.....we could either think positive or negative. Then why is it that most of us choose to be negative about things...even after having been told by our anceastors that if you think positive, good will happen. Being negative is a defense mechanism we adopt to prevent ourselves from being hurt. Its a defense strategy which we think will help us to face the situation if bad happens. Its probably hurts less when the negative happens when ur prepared for it. Its easier to think negative and tell yourself you expected that to happen than be positive about something and feel disappointed if it doesnt. Its always been easy to be negative. We prepare ourselves, we protect and shield ourselves from being hurt by being negative. But then dont they say......like the book "The Secret" you get what attract what you think????

Its finally a personal choice, but we have to decide whether we want to be postive and live each moment as it comes without shielding ourselves or live like a coward shielding ourselves from being hurt.

Count your blessings......

The day was really aweful, i got into the rick tellin myself.....reach home, have dinner and rush to bed before i get another reason to sulk about for the day. I was bugged with everything and everyone around me.....work.....home.....friends..... i mean just about everything. The rick suddenly stopped at a signal and i looked out. What i saw next just left my mind blank for 2 sec. At the corner of the road, was water followin on to the road from a seavege pipe and there i saw these 10-12 year old slum kids drinking water which had accumulated on the road with their palms. That split of a second made me realise.....i was alteast lucky to have family, work or friends for that matter to crib for...to care for....to be cared by......what did i not have......as compared to these kids, who didnt even have food to eat or live and were tryin to satisfy their hunger drinkin that water. We so easily complain about things without realising that, we are lucky to even get to complain about certain things in life. Its so rightly said, count your blessings when your low, I am so confident you would for sure have a longer list of blessings than your list of complains.....Its easy to cry on what we dont have, and greed is our friend.
Anyways "Dont count what you lost; cherish what you have; Plan what to gain; Cos Past never returns but future may return the lost".