We all are selfish and everything that we do in life has selfish motives. Every situation has a positive or a negative outlook.....we could either think positive or negative. Then why is it that most of us choose to be negative about things...even after having been told by our anceastors that if you think positive, good will happen. Being negative is a defense mechanism we adopt to prevent ourselves from being hurt. Its a defense strategy which we think will help us to face the situation if bad happens. Its probably hurts less when the negative happens when ur prepared for it. Its easier to think negative and tell yourself you expected that to happen than be positive about something and feel disappointed if it doesnt. Its always been easy to be negative. We prepare ourselves, we protect and shield ourselves from being hurt by being negative. But then dont they say......like the book "The Secret" you get what attract what you think????
Its finally a personal choice, but we have to decide whether we want to be postive and live each moment as it comes without shielding ourselves or live like a coward shielding ourselves from being hurt.
4 comments:
I don't usually read blogs that are on the serious side.. but yours seemed a little different; why? I don't really know. Nonetheless, my two cents' worth on your last piece - If you're prepared for the worst and the exact opposite happens, isn't the amount of happiness greater?
You have a simple but beautiful way with words; do blog more often.
Well....agreed the happiness is greater, but i really believe those things happen into which you direct ur energies.....when ur prepared for the worst, dont you think you energies are focussed in the wrong direction?
m following ur blog since last year...but u havent written any new post since long...i mus say dat u r very good with words n write really well..
do blog often...looking forward to read ur stuffs...Cheers to bloggers!!!
Its all about your Mind.Impossible is a relative term.A healthy spiritual mind will always emanate positive vibes.Life is not easy but beautiful as every person prepares for the topsyturvy ride to a lively existence , each one has a different story to tell....
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